Forgiveness, sho'll aint easy...

Have you wronged someone and wondered if they had forgiven you. How do you know someone has TRULY forgiven you? I guess you can ask and take their word for it. how do you really know?

Most people say, they pray for forgiveness, this is a good thing; however, shouldn't you also ask the person you wronged for forgiveness (I am not saying anyone is higher than HIM) ? I ask this because dont you think the wronged party needs to have closure? True alot of people say they dont care, but deep down, they probably do.

I make a point to ask the people I may have wronged (calm down, there were only a few...) to forgive me. If there is anyone that feels I have done something to cause them discomfort or emotional pain, I ask for your forgiveness.

For the one who took my heart, shattered it to pieces, and flushed it down the toilet, I forgive you.

For the skank tramp who slept with my husband, lived in my home, and destroyed my family, I forgive you.

For the one who cant own up to mistakes and constantly finds blame to place, I forgive you.

For the 'friend' who' slept with my college boyfriend at my house while I was at work, I forgive you. (this one was hard to do...but its done) and as for the college boyfriend, you are off the hook too...

For the one who chooses to be unfaithful (thinks she doesnt know, come on fool) and cant 'man-up' to the responsibilities of marriage, I forgive you, but I dont like you & I sometimes wish you needed Blue Star Ointment, but if she can forgive you, I forgive you.

For the one who cant seem to think of anyone but themselves, I forgive you.

For the one who knows what happened to my Siamese cat, I forgive you.

For the one who cant be honest with themselves to save a life, I forgive you.

For anyone that has wronged me, whether you know it or not, I forgive you.

For the 'friends' who are around when errythang good, I forgive you, I dont need you, but I forgive you.

I think forgiveness frees the heart and removes burdens. Try it, it is worth it. I am dedicating my energy to my children and my life. I no longer have time to hold grudges or 'get back' at people, Life is too short and by the time most people decide to enjoy it, it is over.

Love to everyone... holla, holla, holla.....